Saying goodbye to a pet is never easy, even when it’s the right time. Longing to see, cuddle, and talk to your furry pal again is a natural part of the grieving process. It’s important to allow yourself time to mourn. There’s no shame in feeling sad over losing an animal. After all, your pet was there for you every day, unconditionally.
Everyone copes with loss differently. Many pet parents find it helpful to talk with others in a pet loss support group. If you feel up to it, reach out to a group. You can find in-person ones as well as online pet loss support groups. We also have a few recommendations for books and resources that may help you heal.
Hospice of the Valley hosts virtual groups for pet loss. They have drop-in meetings on the first Saturday of each month from 9 to 11 a.m. Please call 602-636-5390 for more information.Local counseling option in Phoenix: Deer Valley Counseling (https://deerval.com/PetLoss
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Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine: Volunteer veterinary students with grief training answer the phone from 12 to 3 p.m. Eastern Standard Time. Call 607-218-7457.Tufts University Cummings School of Veterinary Medicine: The hotline is staffed from 6 to 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time, Monday through Thursday. But you can leave a voicemail 24 hours a day and they’ll return your call. Reach them at 508-839-7966.
Coping with Sorrow on The Loss of Your Pet by Moira K. Anderson
Grieving The Death Of A Pet by Betty J. Carmack
When a Pet Dies by Fred Rogers
Children and Pet Loss: A Guide For Helping by Marty Tousley
International Cemetery, Cremation & Funeral Association has pet loss resources that provide information on how to prepare for your pet’s passing, your options for final arrangements, and helping children deal with their grief.
Daily Paws is a pet publication that has numerous pet loss and dealing with grief articles, like “13 Things to Do When Your Dog Dies to Help You Through the Transition.”
The American Veterinary Medical Association’s “Coping With the Loss of a Pet” has tips for processing through your grief.
